Ich habs ja schon alles neu Aufgesetzt

daher bin ich mit meinem Latein am Ende da ich wie gesagt den offensichtlich bestehenden fehler nicht seh.
Bemerkbar macht sich das ganze auch erst bei der phpmyadmin install hier mal der log dazu:
The following NEW packages will be installed:
apache2-mpm-prefork libapache2-mod-php5 php5-common php5-mysql
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dpkg: apache2-mpm-worker: dependency problems, but removing anyway as you requested:
apache2 depends on apache2-mpm-worker (= 2.2.14-5ubuntu8.11) | apache2-mpm-prefork (= 2.2.14-5ubuntu8.11) | apache2-mpm-event (= 2.2.14-5ubuntu8.11) | apache2-mpm-itk (= 2.2.14-5ubuntu8.11); however:
Package apache2-mpm-worker is to be removed.
Package apache2-mpm-prefork is not installed.
Package apache2-mpm-event is not installed.
Package apache2-mpm-itk is not installed.
(Reading database ... 83101 files and directories currently installed.)
Removing apache2-mpm-worker ...
* Stopping web server apache2 ... waiting [ OK ]
Selecting previously deselected package apache2-mpm-prefork.
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Unpacking apache2-mpm-prefork (from .../apache2-mpm-prefork_2.2.14-5ubuntu8.11_amd64.deb) ...
Selecting previously deselected package php5-common.
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Setting up apache2-mpm-prefork (2.2.14-5ubuntu8.11) ...
* Starting web server apache2 [ OK ]
Setting up php5-common (5.3.2-1ubuntu4.19) ...
Setting up libapache2-mod-php5 (5.3.2-1ubuntu4.19) ...
* Reloading web server config apache2 [ OK ]
Setting up php5-mysql (5.3.2-1ubuntu4.19) ...
root@rs205723:~# apt-get install phpmyadmin
Reading package lists... Done
Building dependency tree
Reading state information... Done
The following extra packages will be installed:
dbconfig-common fontconfig-config javascript-common libfontconfig1
libgd2-xpm libjs-mootools libt1-5 libxpm4 php5-gd php5-mcrypt
wwwconfig-common
Suggested packages:
libgd-tools postgresql-client apache apache-ssl
The following NEW packages will be installed:
dbconfig-common fontconfig-config javascript-common libfontconfig1
libgd2-xpm libjs-mootools libt1-5 libxpm4 php5-gd php5-mcrypt phpmyadmin
wwwconfig-common
0 upgraded, 12 newly installed, 0 to remove and 57 not upgraded.
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Preconfiguring packages ...
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Selecting previously deselected package phpmyadmin.
Unpacking phpmyadmin (from .../phpmyadmin_4%3a3.3.2-1ubuntu1_all.deb) ...
Processing triggers for man-db ...
Processing triggers for libapache2-mod-php5 ...
* Reloading web server config apache2 [ OK ]
Setting up dbconfig-common (1.8.44ubuntu1) ...
Setting up fontconfig-config (2.8.0-2ubuntu1) ...
Setting up wwwconfig-common (0.2.1) ...
Setting up javascript-common (7) ...
Setting up libfontconfig1 (2.8.0-2ubuntu1) ...
Setting up libxpm4 (1:3.5.8-1) ...
Setting up libgd2-xpm (2.0.36~rc1~dfsg-3.1ubuntu1) ...
Setting up libjs-mootools (1.2.4.0~debian1-1) ...
Setting up libt1-5 (5.1.2-3ubuntu0.10.04.2) ...
Setting up php5-gd (5.3.2-1ubuntu4.19) ...
Setting up php5-mcrypt (5.3.2-0ubuntu1) ...
Setting up phpmyadmin (4:3.3.2-1ubuntu1) ...
dbconfig-common: writing config to /etc/dbconfig-common/phpmyadmin.conf
Creating config file /etc/dbconfig-common/phpmyadmin.conf with new version
Creating config file /etc/phpmyadmin/config-db.php with new version
ERROR 1045 (28000): Access denied for user 'root'@'localhost' (using password: YES).
unable to connect to mysql server.
error encountered creating user:
ERROR 1045 (28000): Access denied for user 'root'@'localhost' (using password: YES)
dbconfig-common: phpmyadmin configure: aborted.
dbconfig-common: flushing administrative password
ERROR 1045 (28000): Access denied for user 'root'@'localhost' (using password: YES).
unable to connect to mysql server.
error encountered creating database:
ERROR 1045 (28000): Access denied for user 'root'@'localhost' (using password: YES)
dbconfig-common: phpmyadmin configure: aborted.
dbconfig-common: flushing administrative password
populating database via sql... error encountered populating database:
mysql said: ERROR 1045 (28000): Access denied for user 'root'@'localhost' (using password: YES)
dbconfig-common: phpmyadmin configure: ignoring errors from here forwards
done.
dbconfig-common: flushing administrative password
/edit ich seh grad selber im log dass er ja schon bei der apache install rumspinnt